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Q&A Series: Do you ever get tired of listening to other people's problems?

9/30/2013

15 Comments

 
I’ve been asked this question by friends, strangers, aspiring mental health professionals, and even patients. It’s an interesting question, but I always find myself surprised when it is asked.

I also give the same response every time. In my years of being a clinical psychologist, I’ve never come across the same type of person twice. I have worked with many people who have presented with depression, anxiety, family conflict, etc., but each person had their own unique background and story.

Yes, common themes do arise in therapy: grief from losing a loved one, anxiety related to control, reoccurring relational problems, poor self-esteem due to a chaotic, neglectful home life. However, each person has their own experience, and the same experience can have a different impact from person to person.

Even the loss of a loved one can impact people differently. One person could be grief-stricken for months or years, while another may process the loss by becoming more active in personal pursuits as life isn't limitless.

People are complex, and it’s immensely rewarding and actually energizing to be able to work with people from different backgrounds. It’s a privilege to be allowed access to others’ experiences.

To be completely honest, sometimes there are moments of feeling disconnected during a session. Some might describe this moment as boredom or disinterest, but it's different. It's more about the interaction being superficial versus meaningful. It's getting caught up in the minor details instead of focusing on the central issue.

The disconnect during a session refers to the emotional connection between the patient and therapist. The patient or therapist can feel disconnected in a moment, the feeling isn't exclusive to either. Part of the therapy work is verbalizing and exploring this emotional distance, and recognizing if and when the same disconnect occurs in other relationships.

So for those who have that friend who only wants to talk when there is a problem, or only shares their own successes, take a moment and reflect on the relationship. Consider your perspective, but also connect with the perspective of others.

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9/7/2024 04:33:38 am

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Anna joe
6/23/2025 03:27:54 pm

i want to share to the whole world how Dr masako the Great of all the Spell Caster, that helped me reunite my marriage back, my Ex Husband broke up with me 3months ago, I have been trying to get him back ever since then, i was worried and so confused because i love him so much. I was really going too depressed, he left me with my kids and just ignored me constantly. I have begged him for forgiveness through text messages for him to come back home and the kids crying and miss their dad but he wont reply, I wanted him back desperately. we were in a very good couple and yet he just ignores me and get on with his life just like that, so i was looking for help after reading a post of Dr masako on the internet when i saw a lady name SHARRON testified that Dr masako cast a Pure love spell to stop divorce. and i also met with other, it was about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 24 hours at the end of her testimony she dropped his email, I contacted Dr masako via email and explained my problem to Dr masako and he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen, that he will restored my marriage back, and to my greatest surprise my Ex husband came back to me, and he apologized for his mistake, and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day our marriage is now stronger than how it was before, Dr masako you’re a real spell caster, you can also get your Ex back and live with him happily: Contact Email [email protected] or  Call/whatsapp +2349047144277 Visit his Website: https://doctormasako2.wixsite.com/drmasakospelltemple

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7/1/2025 11:14:00 pm

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